On the exit event of date_implemented add the following FormCalc script.
var datePattern = "MM/DD/YYYY"
if (Date2Num($.formattedValue, datePattern) - Date2Num(date_required.formattedValue, datePattern) gt 10) then
$host.messageBox("Warning massage …")
$ = null
$host.setFocus($.somExpression)
endif
Keep in mind, that you cannot suppress saving a form in any case.