Multi Resource SupportActivating Multi Resource Support for your workflow model means that a single workflow instance will be started when you select multiple resources. It should be activated for your workflow model.
I would suggest you to check ths following doc where you can see how to create a workflow, invoke it, and monitor it.Adobe Experience Manager Help | Using Adobe Experience Manager Workflows
I do not believe the server is available during an upgrade installation but during the routine maintenance e.g. workflow purge, DataStore Garbage Collection, ..etc Ideally you should not let any access. You can block access via dispatcher.
I have done this update and did not see any issues.try invalidating cache and rebuild libraries:http://host:port/libs/granite/ui/content/dumplibs.rebuild.html