So here is what I found by myself. There is a glitch in the software; if
you create an "Identity", it will override any "Submit By Email" or
"Submit Form". Unfortunately for me, deleting the Identity didn't do
anything and changing the Identity didn't do anything. I also found out
that sometimes the xml will override the email address that I put in
there. Again, unfortunately for me, my xml was fine (this narrowed it
down to Acrobat and Reader). What I had to do when neither of these
worked was ...
I have created a fill-out form and I have put in the "Submit By Email"
button to a co-worker of mine. It was working before, but I had to lower
the file size so that it could be emailed. I pulled over all the fields
from the large form and put them on my new smaller size form. I deleted
the old "Submit By Email" button and created a new one, I tried to
change it to just a button and it's still doing it. Can someone please
help me? The support on Adobe sucks as this was the only option it gave