if you give your company email id - AMS will enable the new relic access, this is the same process , we generally follow. You can ask your AMS, what is ECC id and the process to get it.
you can create account with your company email id in new relic: https://newrelic.com/signup?via=loginand send request to your AMS (Adobe Manager Services) support to enable the access.
you can update to SP7, there are several issues addressed related to Move pages https://experienceleague.adobe.com/docs/experience-manager-65/release-notes/service-pack/sp-release-notes.html#install see the Sites section
you can do overlay https://experienceleague.adobe.com/docs/experience-manager-65/developing/extending-aem/customizing-consoles-touch.html?lang=en#extending-aem overlay this path to /apps and select the option (check sling resource merger sling:hideProperties)/libs/wcm/core/content/sites/jcr:content/...
Instead of customizing the status, why don't you set or update prism:expirationDate value with your custom expiration date. That will automatically set the EXPIRED flag on Asset. custom:expirationDate = prism:expirationDate