Hello -
To use mx:RemoteObject with CFC you don't even need FDS, you
can use FlexBuilder 2.0 and use it's internal FDS SDK to build,
compile and deploy full apps to be used in conjunction with CF 7.02
(Flex Connectivity)
Secondly, if you do want to install the full FDS 2.0
enterprise software you can find the instructions to do so for J2EE
apps servers here
http://www.adobe.com/support/documentation/en/flex/2/install.html#flexj2eeHTH, Bill