Mike, sorry I'm just using the JBOSS trial version and found the SDK pretty straight forward, at least for the Form Data Integration methods. Once I got through some partially self inflicted install and config hacks, I was easily able to get those samples working with PDF files and XML I created myself with Designer ES.
Not sure if you know this but you can use Acrobat Pro to enable some of the Reader Extension like features, but its obviously a user driven process. For us, we need automated enterprise level processing to do that enable-ment and PDF/XML pre/post processing. If you just want import/export capability just add some JavaScript to your Acrobat enabled forms that call the xfa.host.importData()/exportData() functions. Then even the free Reader will work to load or save form data via XML to and from the file system. Good luck - eric