Hello @ronnie_c -
In AEM, the order of nodes, including pages, is stored in the underlying repository called CRX. The node ordering information is stored as a property of each parent node and is managed by the JCR (Java Content Repository) specification.
By default, AEM does not provide a built-in mechanism to synchronize or maintain the node order during package installation. However, you can consider using a custom solution or a third-party tool to achieve the desired synchronization of page order.
However, you can consider leveraging some tools or creating some customized utility to facilitate this ask. (this would involve programmatically manipulating the node order property of the parent node in the package content.)