Thanks for your help, Sanford. I really appreciate you looking into this.
Please let me know what you find / what the solution could be.
Thanks again!
As far as I can see, this is a Chrome 69 bug only, not existing in versions on either side of 69. Not the first time (by any means) such a thing has happened!
Chrome 70 is going to go Stable around October 16th. This means 3 more weeks of dealing with your forms not rendering, or switching to embeds.
As far as I can see the problem persists even when the IFRAMEs are the only elements in the page, so there's nothing else to trim down or tweak. It happens a lot less than 50% of the time for me, though. More like 5%.