It seems that AEM has native web services or at least data access.
Instead of having drop downs go to a webservice to populate the drop downs (which I can do), I want to have my other system run once a day and just hit a webservice that AEM hosts to allow my other system to remove and add nodes with properties. That requires that I have a webservice on the AEM. Here is the general structure
I want to go to 'category 1' or 'category 2' and want to remove 'myitem1', 'myitem2', 'myitem3' then replace them with other items
I want to do this with web services.... web services that AEM hosts.
I tried using Access Control - admin and adding access control to the 'Access Control List' but got this error (besides it might not be the right direction anyway)