So here is what I found by myself. There is a glitch in the software; if you create an "Identity", it will override any "Submit By Email" or "Submit Form". Unfortunately for me, deleting the Identity didn't do anything and changing the Identity didn't do anything. I also found out that sometimes the xml will override the email address that I put in there. Again, unfortunately for me, my xml was fine (this narrowed it down to Acrobat and Reader). What I had to do when neither of these worked was create a "Button" and change it to a pdf. The only way for me to get the button to work was to NOT distribute the form. No skin off my teeth, but still a pain. Lesson learned, never ever put an Identity in and never select "Remember Me".
