That's weird. I have the problem the other way around.
If someone wants to send the form back to my account, I do only receive the filled pdf - but I chose "xml" in my options. What is wrong there?
Back to topic: Malhyp, you have to create a simple button, then choose "Object" on the right, then "Control field" -> Sending an then go to the next register "Sending", type your page or mailto:youradresse@domain.com an choose "pdf". Thats it! (I think the names of the buttons an so on sound strange because I use the german version - so don't worry...)
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