Under the Flow Control window for a Campaign Workflow, is there any way to add custom nodes (which pull in a few splits, read lists and delivery nodes)
Yes you can add custom nodes by changing xtk:workflow form but since this form is OOB form so you have to be very careful while doing such changes.
As you can see below I have added delivery control activity under Flow control
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